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Opinion piece of Papon’s kissing controversy…

Papon: A Kiss and Tell story

Poor Papon, media is ripping him apart, Arnab (Goswami) has gone after him.

I feel he was merely showing affection.

He is a leach and pervert. He’s drunk in the video. He should be punished…

Different opinions of different people!!!

Angarag Mahanta aka Papon must be going through hell, a nightmare he would like to forget, however, it will haunt him all his life.

Noted singer he is, also a talented one, yet, today, he is more infamous than famous.

The video of Papon kissing an 11 year old girl reality show contestant on lips has spelled doom for him. Suddenly he finds himself crucified in the eye of media and society, lynched one comment/opinion at a time.

His act draws wrath, disgust, disbelief at the same time. As we know, any action and its immediate reaction are subjective and vary from individual to individual, stemming from one’s core belief system.

Is kissing an 11 year old girl in any circumstances justified? Well, the answer is a certain NO, irrespective of the reverence or respect attached to it.

Now, this is not a judgment piece. We are trying to make some sense of the cacophony.

The popular belief is that Papon was in an inebriated state and went on to kiss the female contestant, ‘out of affection as a mentor’ as per his statement, while others feel he is a ‘pervert’.

Now,  Papon’s kiss leaving the girl stunned talks volumes, him telling to ‘cut the video’ raises suspicion, however, he choosing to put the video on his social media page also reflects non-malice.

Was he drunk? Did he really mean abuse? Or was he too high on glam and power quotient being a celeb mentor?

We say, probe is must and let the authorities decide whether he is guilty or not. If guilty, then he must face the law.

Reality shows and its children participants have always been a subject of debate. It’s like a moth chasing fire…some feel kids get a platform to catch dreams, while many feel that ratings and revenue choke innocence. It’s undeniable that many times it’s the latent unachieved ambition of parents, who get lured by name, fame and moolah… bring their kids to the stage.

Anyone who states that the glam world is ‘pure business’ is an epitome of anomaly, phony scarface hiding from reality. Like Bollywood, TV business too has its #MeToo moments, which are yet to come out in open.

The incident calls for a larger introspection, which of course, is too much to ask for given the unorganized nature of the broadcasting programming industry. Having said that, Papon’s act will certainly tighten the system and make all wary.

Yes, the contestant in question and her family members have given official statements giving Papon a clean chit, which can be true, but there is also something called ‘damage control PR’.

All efforts of Papon and his media team remain null and void and the singer is now pinned against the wall with media doyen Subhash Chandra condemning him in public.

The reality show, the eye of the storm, beams on &TV, a network channel owned by Dr Chandra.  &TV communication team has been running helter-skelter in an attempt to salvage the situation, however, Dr Chandra’s tweets act as the final nail in the coffin.

Why do we say that? Well, the doyen expressed his views almost 48 hours after the news took the nation by storm. We are sure that the network would have had its internal check/ investigation in the matter. Dr Chandra firing Papon forever from his group and condemning him in public must be based on information and fact, not opinion & emotion, for as much as Papon, the channel’s reputation is also at stake.

The matter is debatable but certainly calls for introspection. Small town dream chasers often get intimated by reverential glamour world figures, acting mute to stay afloat in the rat race.

For Papon, the song is bitter as of now. If he is guilty, he must be punished, if not, it’s lesson learned for him. And for those who are belting out debates after debates on news channels, well, it’s irrelevant for it’s all gone with Sridevi’s death. Papon is almost forgotten.

At the end, like always, in a country which swears by short term memory, Papon will move on, so will the content creators, however, we hope that the girl and her family will have enough strength and support to sail through it as well.  After all, Papon and paparazzi, both are transient for them.

About The Author
Siddhartha Laik

With over 10 years of experience in media and entertainment, Siddhartha believes in the importance of attitude over aptitude. With Masters in English Literature from Fergusson College, Pune (First Class) and a Diploma in Journalism, he has immense knowledge in diverse fields of editorial, content creation, effective communication, team building, leadership, motivational speaking, personality development, success principles, digital, print and broadcast media, soft skills et al. “In today’s time it is all about multi-tasking. An individual has immense potential to break notions and conventions and explore unchartered territories. All one needs to do is work hard on self development and BELIEVE”-Siddhartha After being part of editorial teams in organizations like Times of India, Mid Day, Magna Publication, Indian Express, Sakaal Times, Indiantelevision.com Pvt Ltd Group, in capacity ranging from a reporter to Managing Editor & Head of Business, Siddhartha is the Founder & Editor-in-chief at IWMBuzz (earlier known as IndianWikiMedia). His role includes heading editorial, building and motivating teamforce, crisis management, business strategy and launching new properties. A communicator par excellence, a motivator, a leader, an innovator, a risk taker, Siddhartha was awarded the Best Student in his journalism course and has also featured on India TV as a commentator, Bigg Boss as a news seeker, and is a visiting faculty in multiple media institutions. His hobbies include playing a guitar, reading and writing fiction literature, debating and discussing on current affairs and watching superhero movies.