Friends cannot and should not be expected to meet all of your demands, even while it’s important to be proud of where you’re from and to think that most true friends value and enjoy spending time with you. You have to distinguish between the two. Boundaries are the cornerstone of any good connection, even for the ones you have had with your closest friends, in addition to being a crucial component of self-care. Because when these limits are crossed, disappointments typically result from expectations that aren’t realized.

So have the following in mind before discussing any expectations in your connection.

1. Be truthful- The chosen people in our lives are frequently elevated and given the exposure they require to become our aspirational and idol figures. It is inevitable that we will be greatly shocked and disappointed when these people ultimately fail to live up to the standards we have set for them. Therefore, having realistic expectations will help you avoid feeling hurt or angry. They also help you focus on what you can do to make the situation better.

2. Examining a compromise solution- Because your expectations and your friend’s expectations can occasionally be utterly at odds, you’ll need to meet them halfway. Compromises in these situations can be a deal breaker. You shouldn’t give up, even though it can be difficult at times. To put it simply, it means that you and your friend both need to work a little harder to understand one another’s viewpoints. When you finally find a solution that satisfies your mutual needs, you’ll be glad you put in the effort.

3. Try to find solutions on your own- Life is full of problems, whether they are monetary, interpersonal, or professional in nature. When a situation is extremely complicated, you might want to ask for assistance. Don’t ask for help with tasks that you could finish on your own with a little more effort. While occasionally helping friends in return for a favor is appropriate, disaster almost always ensues when you put too much of your day’s workload in the hands of another person.