The Bhojpuri star, who married Mansha Devi in 2000, shared honest thoughts about love, regret, and responsibility during a recent conversation with Digital Commentary. His words quickly caught the attention of social media users.
Nirahua revealed that his parents arranged his marriage when he felt he was not ready. Looking back, he admitted that he had different dreams for himself before settling down. He wanted to focus on building his career and achieving something first. However, family pressure led to an early wedding.
Speaking about those days, Nirahua said he repeatedly asked his parents for time. He wanted to establish himself before taking such a big step. Even after 26 years of marriage, he says that a sense of regret still stays with him. According to him, a life partner should be someone a person truly loves. In his case, he feels that his emotional connection never fully developed.
The actor did not hide his feelings. In fact, he shared that he has spoken honestly with both his wife and his children. Nirahua said he had told his sons clearly that he had never been able to love their mother the way a husband ideally should. He has also admitted the same to his wife. While these words may sound harsh to many, he explained that he believes in being truthful rather than pretending.
At the same time, Nirahua made it clear that he has always fulfilled his responsibilities. He respects the marriage because it was his parents’ decision, and he continues to stand by it as his duty. He said that even if emotions were not strong, responsibility has always been there. For him, commitment means taking care of the family and not walking away from obligations.
However, the guilt of not choosing his partner on his own has deeply shaped the way he parents his children. Nirahua shared that he does not want his sons to feel the same pressure he once felt. He has clearly told them that they are free to choose their life partners. He will not interfere or force any marriage decision.
The Bhojpuri star also spoke about his sons’ career choices. His elder son is interested in direction, while his younger son wants to become an actor. Instead of pushing them toward a fixed path, Nirahua asked them what they truly wanted. Once they expressed their interests, he supported their decisions and encouraged them to take proper training.
He believes that when someone follows their own passion, they naturally give their best. For him, success is not only about fame but also about satisfaction. He feels that freedom to choose makes a big difference in how a person shapes their future.
Through his statements, Nirahua has shown a different side of himself — not just as a superstar but as a father reflecting on his own journey. His honesty about regret and emotional distance in his marriage has sparked debate. Some may agree with his openness, while others may question it. But one thing is clear: he wants his children to have the independence he feels he missed out on.
By allowing his sons to make their own choices in both love and career, Nirahua hopes they will build lives filled with both success and happiness — something he believes should always go hand in hand.
