Love yourself and everything will be in order in your life. It’s a losing battle to please others.

When you focus on self-love and self-compassion, you build self-esteem and it can form a healthier and happier relationship with self and others.

Here we look at 10 ways to pamper yourself.

* Know yourself.

Knowing yourself is very important and invest in discovering what you believe, value, and like.

* Don’t compare yourself to others.

Others aren’t extraordinary or worst, they are just different. You have to value yourself by excepting yourself and not comparing yourself with others.

* Be truly present.

Our life is full of distraction. Don’t get distracted by small odd things and rather present yourself truly and steadily.

* Know and use your strength.

When you are busy and distracted it’s very difficult to notice your great qualities. By focusing on your strength, you can develop positivity within.

* Be honest with yourself.

Honesty is the key in all relationship and it helps you in relationship with yourself also. If you are lying, you can’t love yourself.

* Work on forgiving yourself.

Self-forgiveness is a process of believing in yourself and subsequently, it will lead you to love yourself.

* Accept that some people won’t like you.

Some people may not like you. Accept it and don’t try to waste time pleasing others. Being yourself and give up your people-pleasing ways and embrace yourself.

* Practice gratitude.

Gratitude is perhaps the most straightforward approaches to zero in on the positive qualities in yourself and your life.

* Write down your success.

This is the best self-love activity, as it creates a record of your big and small accomplishments.

* Feel our feelings.

Our feelings are an integral part of who we are. Don’t deny your feelings and healthily express them.