In a world where television screens often paint romance with grand gestures, soaring background scores, and high-stakes drama, actor Kunal Jaisingh and his wife, Bharati, have carved out a relationship defined by quiet understanding, shared laughter, and deep-rooted trust. As the festive season brings couples together for Karwa Chauth, Kunal pulls back the curtain on what true companionship looks like away from the arc lights—proving that the most enduring love stories are built in the everyday moments.
For Kunal, the glitz of television and the truth of daily life are two entirely different universes. While on-screen romances are timed to perfection, real-life bonds thrive on the comfort of simply showing up for each other. “I think real life is very different from what we portray on television. On screen, everything is dramatic, romantic and perfectly timed. In real life, it’s the little things that matter more. For Bharati and me, it’s about spending time together, sharing moments and appreciating the relationship we’ve built. Romance evolves with time—it’s not always about grand gestures; sometimes, it’s just about being there for each other.”
Navigating a career filled with romantic roles can be tricky for any actor’s household, but a strong foundation keeps the noise out. Kunal shares how mutual respect ensures that fictional drama never crosses their threshold, leaving room only for shared laughter. “Thankfully, Bharati understands my profession and knows that what you see on screen is a performance. There’s a difference between playing a romantic character and being in a real relationship. When you have trust and understanding in a marriage, you don’t need to bring fictional drama home! We can always laugh about the exaggerated romance on television because real relationships are much more layered than what you see in a few scenes.”
As years pass, the true value of a festival shifts from price tags to presence. Kunal emphasises that thoughtfulness always triumphs over commercial luxury when it comes to making a partner feel cherished.
“Honestly, I feel that as we grow older, we start valuing thoughtfulness more than gifts. You can buy someone something expensive, but what really stays with them is whether you understand them and make an effort for them. A meaningful gesture is one that makes your partner feel seen, valued and loved. I’d rather create a beautiful memory together than feel pressured to make a festival about who bought the better gift!”
If life were a movie script and Kunal were in the director’s chair for a real-life Karwa Chauth special, the script would steer clear of unnecessary twists and turns, focusing instead on pure, unfiltered comfort. “Knowing how dramatic television can get, I’d definitely direct a film with no misunderstandings, no unnecessary twists and no dramatic background music! Just Bharati and me, a little dressing up, good conversations, laughter and quality time together. I’d want the film to capture the comfort of being with someone who knows you beyond your public persona. Because that’s what a relationship is really about—finding someone with whom you can be completely yourself.”
Amid hectic shooting schedules and the relentless pace of the industry, Karwa Chauth serves as a much-needed time for the couple to pause, breathe, and reconnect. “I’d like to keep it personal and meaningful rather than over-plan it. With the kind of schedules we have, spending uninterrupted time together is valuable in itself. The important thing is to celebrate the relationship and the companionship we share. Festivals are a lovely reminder to pause, step away from the everyday hustle and make time for the people who matter most.”
